I know this post is a bit overdue, but since I just received all pictures from my super talented photographer/blogger friend – Dixie Thamrin, I think it’s just the perfect time to share the story of our engagement day in this blog. Bear with me it’ll be a long post, but I hope you’ll enjoy it! (P.S Dixie has also written about this on her photography blog.. do check it out!)
My house was full that day, as my aunt and cousin were staying over to help with preparation. It was hectic, but also fun at the same time because I rarely see them as they are not living in Jakarta and they came specifically for the event. As I was doing last minute prep, I realised that I haven’t finished with the playlist! Uh-oh… I asked for my cousin for help and I ended up spending 2 hours just for collecting the songs.
Finally done with the playlist and it was time for me to get ready. I quickly took a shower, did last minute check with the preparations, and starting to feel anxious. Hahahaha. I know I am a planner but I did not realise that I could not keep my cool when it comes to my own event. I was nervous all the time and kept telling my family to hurry up (ooopsss…). My mum laughed at me, told me to chill and relax as she got everything covered.
We left the house to Cipete area, where the salon and the restaurant are located. We stopped by a fruit shop on our way to buy fruits as one of the hampers for R.
We finally made it to the salon! I have booked an appointment for myself, my mum, aunt, and cousin. The makeup and hair do process was done smoothly, and even though I was afraid we would be behind schedule, we finished getting dolled up on time (See – my nervousness was unnecessary! :p).
We arrived at Twin House – a homey restaurant which was the venue for the event. Dixie was already there, taking picture of the preparations. My side of the family started to come and helped with the preparations as well – finalising the thank you hampers for R, decorations, and everything else. Me? I was told to just sit down but I could not keep cool! Hahahahaha. So typical of me. I wanted to get my hands on the preparations as well but I knew I could not do it as I was part of the “stars of the day”, right? :))))))
The preparations were done! Yay! Everything was all set, so we were waiting for R’s family as they were scheduled to arrive at 4 PM. But first, my family and I gathered to celebrate my mum’s birthday (yes – it was her birthday that day!) and pray before the big event started.
Just a couple of minutes before 4 I was told to “hide”. This is an Indonesian thing – ah, wait. Before I continue to tell you our story, let me explain how engagement day is normally done in Indonesian culture.
Typically the engagement ceremony is held in the bride’s house. There she would gather with her family and close friends. Then she will be put in hiding while waiting for the groom to come with his family. When they arrive, the bride’s family will greet them and ask for the purpose of the visit. (That’s just for formality, of course, in reality, everybody knows what is going on! lol). A member of the groom’s family then asks for the bride’s hand in marriage. After the bride’s family’s agreement, the bride will be called out to give approval. Basically to give confirmation what have just happened :). So, after she said yes – there would normally be a ring-exchange ceremony to make it official, but since it’s not a wedding yet, the rings would be inserted to the bride by the groom’s mum… and vice versa. Basically to symbolize that this couple is now engaged 🙂
Okay, I hope my non-Indonesian readers can get a better understanding 🙂 Now let’s continue to the story of our engagement day…
R and his family arrived at the restaurant, greeted by my aunts and uncle from both of my mum and dad’s side. Then there the engagement tradition happened like I explained earlier. We exchanged rings, we took lots of pictures with our families, we ate together, and then R’s family came home. Not long after my family also left, leaving us to wait for our close friends to come.
Yes, we decided to invite our friends later at night to have a small celebration and to introduce each other to our friends. Believe or not it was the first time R met some of my best friends! 🙂
After our families have left, our friends started to arrive. I was happy to meet my friends and introduce R to them, and also to meet his friends for the first time. Almost everybody that I invited was able to make it, so it was almost a full house. Yay!
However, at some time close to 7, it started to rain so heavily. Everybody quickly went inside the restaurant. Instead of a garden party, we had to squeeze inside the restaurant. Not very ideal, I know, but at least I’m so thankful that everything went by so smoothly :).
It finally stopped raining and our friends started to go home as well. As the rain stopped, I just realised something. Because of the rain, we could not hear anything from my playlist! :(((( That’s just too bad since R and I carefully chose the playlist together as we wanted to have a groovy night. Ah well, that’s definitely a thing to remember. Now since I could not play the songs that time, let me put the playlist here so you can have an idea.. We both love to dance and love soul/black/disco music so we think these songs best speak the mood! Hahaha yes, we have everything from Zayn to Andy Gibb… but all these songs are meant to make you dance hehehe. Enjoy 🙂
So that’s about it! The story of how our engagement day went. I’ll have a separate post on our lovely support system a.k.a vendors who helped to make the day beautiful, so stay tuned!
Thanks for reading, have a nice day xx
66 thoughts on “Our Engagement Day”
Seneng banget baca ini :*
makasih pujiii udah ikut senang sama cerita kitaaa :*
Chris, kok kayaknya aku kenal familiar face in the crowd dari keluarga R ya? ada yang namanya Maya/ Kika bukan sih? Oh, LOVE the playlist by the way. Ga kedengeran di acara, kedengaran buat blog reader ;).
Waaa dunia sempit amat hehehe kenalan kamu dimana Ya? itu kk iparnya si R hihihihi 🙂 Thank you! aku udah ngebayangin masang lagunya di acara, hiks.. untung masi bisa dinikmati blog reader 😉
oh bener ya haha, temen SMA dulu Chris. Iyoi kecil bener dunia.
Ohhh gituu.. yaampun! Bener2 kecil deh :))))
Awwww ❤️❤️❤️ this post so lovely 🙂
thank youuu Aggy ❤ ❤ ❤
Sukaaa foto2nya dan ceritanya. Lancar2 sampai hari H ya 😻
Makasih Noniii, iya Dixie foto2nya ciamik banget yaaa.. ❤
Congrats, Christa n R (^-^) hopefully everything will be smooth until the big day ☺☺☺☺
Amiiin, makasih Inong ❤
Foto2nya berbicara semua ya. Hidup ekspresinya lewat foto2nya Dixie, suka! Tapi bisa intip2 sedikit sosoknya R di websitenya Dixie haha *terkepo, eh penasaran tepatnya 😅
Sama Den! 🙂 🙂
Aku jugaa favorit banget sama foto2nya Dixie! hehehehe… ahhh iya gak bermaksud bikin penasaran lhoo Den, di blog nya Dixie pun malu malu doi munculnya hihihi :)))))
Twin house itu restoran ya Chris? Lucu ya tempat nya…
Ikut seneng semua berjalan lancar walaupun ujan tp yg penting semua lancar ya…
Iyaa restoran di daerah Cipete Man. Cuma konsepnya emang kayak rumahan gitu, jadi pas lah buat acara kemaren 🙂 Iya thanks Man, untungnya ujan setelah acara resmi nya kelar.. hehe
Congrats Chris!!!! 😄😄😄
Playlist-nya asyik-asyik tuh!! 😄
Anyway, lancar-lancar terus sampai hari-H yaaa 👍
Yay glad you like it! Thanks Ko 🙂
Awh congrats again, Mbak Christa! Happy for you 💕 Lancar2 sampai hari H ya. Btw, jepretannya Mbak Dixie kece-kece. Dan ini Twin Houses lagi happening banget di instagram ya, mbak.
Makasih Icha 🙂 hehehe iya kayaknya banyak yg bikin acara di Twin House yaah…
Congrats Mbak Christa! Happy for you 🙂 Photonya cakep cakep…:)
Thank you ❤
waaah selamat ya Christa. Keren nih playlist nya *trus malah disetel*
Yay glad you like it! Thank you ❤
congrats, Christa 🙂 semoga lancar semuanya dan sukaaa banget sama foto-fotonya 😀
Makasih Astrid.. sehat2 yaaahh bumil :*
Christaaa.. Selamat yaa! Lancar-lancar semuanyaaa
Amiiin, makasih yaaa Put ❤
Keren amat nih engagement partynya… 🙂 Congratulations!
Thank you! xx
wow selamat ya mbak Christa. bahagia selalu, senyumnya di semua foto menandakan kebahagiaan yg luar biasa, sekali lagi semoga di lancarkan sampe hari H 😉 (btw aku penasaran sama mukanya si abang R) *idih sok2 manggil abang kayak akrab aja*,hehe
Makasih Adhyaaa… Amiiiin! moga2 lancar ya nanti lahirannya..ga sabar juga nih liat foto2 si bayi hehehehe. Ahh abang R (ikutan manggil abang hahaha) pemaluuu, jadi muncul nya setengah2 aja hihihi
Christa, reading this post makes me smile. I was there and I could see how happy you were, you looked glowing on that day. Congratulations once again, semoga persiapan sampe hari H lancar yaa 🙂
Aahh… can’t thank you enough Dixie ❤ ❤ ❤
Thank you for sharing. Before reading this, I actually didn’t know this is one of the Indonesians’ culture. 😊 Congratulations to you and R.
Hi! thanks for stopping by and glad you like the story 🙂
You’re welcome, Crista. 🙂
what a lovely event and beautiful photos, ..congratulations
Thank you 🙂
Congrats again Christa and R…. ahh jaman sekarang engagement party aza keren gitu ya. Back on 1998 when I got engaged, we had a garden party but it was so simple. Btw, out of curiosity, by looking at the pictures, does R have Indonesian blood or Indonesian’s family? Or was it just for the ceremony so he adopted an Indonesian family? I’m a bit confused here…heheee…
Makasih Riaa ❤ hehehe itu juga I was lucky that I got free decoration, kalau nggak juga simpel aja di restorannya. Ah, sorry i didn't mean to make you confused! R has Indonesian blood, he just have lived in the US for many many years now.. but he still has extended family here hehehe 😀
Ohhh lalaaa so far bayangan aku si R ini bule Taaaa🙈🙈😀😀
Ahhahahahaha berdarah 100% Indo kokk Rii.. bentuk badannya aja yg gede gituuu lolllll
Akhirnya keluar juga ceritanyaaaa hihihi, congratulation ya Ciiiiitaaa, Lancar semuanya sampai hari H, aku diundang yaaa :* hugs hugs
Amiiiiin, tunggu tanggal mainnya yaaa hihihihi
Finally, the long awaited post hahaha. Selamaaaat!! I wonder, kalo acaranya di Cipete, mungkin nggak ya makeup thingy nya dikerjain di salon keluarganya temen gw? Hahaha random guessing banget >,<
Ditunggu update selanjutnya 😀
Makasihhhh Nadyaa.. hehehe tinggal 1 lagi nih post nya tentang acara iniii.. abis ini ganti topik ah hahahaha. Salonnya nanti aku sebut di post selanjutnya yaa 😉 duile sok2 bikin penasaran hahahaha :))))))))))
Tapi tetep ditunggu ya Ta ceritanyaa 😆
Anyway, fotonya Dixie bagus-bagus ya. Me likes so much!!
Me tooo like ittt hehehe, udah tayang tuhhh postnyaa hihi :))))))
Congrats, Christa! I will find you on Spotify and listen to the playlist to pretend that I was there celebrating with you 😉
Thank you!! Moga2 denger lagunya bisa ikutan joged2 pundak kepala goyang kiri kanan yaah Diiit.. heheheheh :))))))
ciyeee, congrats ya christaaa
Hihihi makasihh yaaa 🙂
Selamat yah Christa!
Tempat acaranya hangat yah suasananya 😊
Thank youu ❤
Cuit cuitttt… Congratssss Christa and R..
Hihihi makasihhhh 😀
Aku juga dikasitau Dixie acara lamaranmu seru banget! Congrats yaaa lancar sampai nanti hari H hehe. Btw kamu kknya Caesar ya?? Dia temen kelas ku dulu pas di Labsky omg dunia sempit hahahah kaget banget :p
Makasih Mandaaa ❤ Kamu nyusul yah 🙂
EHHH seriusan? Hahahaha dunia sempit bangeett.. iya tadi aku tanya dia juga, dia juga bilang begitu hehehe..
Aku kmaren juga baru kenal dan main sama Jenita, katanya dia temen blogger mu juga yaa. Bener2 dunia sempit banget! Kapan2 ktemuan yuk bertiga, ajak Dixie jugaa 😀
Congrats! I just got engaged too and started my blog to document all of the wedding planning! Can’t wait to keep up with your blog 🙂
Thanks and congratulations to you too! good luck for the wedding planning 🙂