The Tales of a Newlywed

During our earlier days of marriage, I discovered a quirk that my husband has, that is, the way he makes our bed! I think he is obsessed with making the bed and at first, I found it hard to understand this particular behaviour of his. I mean it’s not like I never make the bed, but he wants the bed to be made in a particular way.

But as time goes by, I learned how to make the bed like he does, and now he never complains when I make it. And then there’s also this quirk of mine that I just discovered! I found it annoying when he puts the toilet paper facing up because I want it to be put facing down. Hahahaha. Can you picture what I mean? πŸ˜›

Anyway, both of us had to learn about how each of us like certain things to be done. I guess this is what being married means. We learn and we compromise. We adjust to each other while keeping each other’s company. I wonder why they never show things like these in rom-com movies that I grew up watching? All they portray was the romantic proposal, the grand honeymoon, and of course the serendipitous meeting to start off with!


Don’t get me wrong, I love being married especially to R. Although we lack the grand romance like those of Hollywood rom-coms have, we have our everyday romance, the little things, that make our lives more pleasant. Like this one time where he brought home my favorite doughnuts from work. Or, obviously, the moment where I finally made the bed right! Hahahaha. I like to consider those moments as our everyday romance, and hopefully, we can keep them until we grow wrinkles ❀️.

30 thoughts on “The Tales of a Newlywed”

  1. Sebagai orang yang menjaga teritori dengan baik, aku agak2 cemas gimana nanti pas nikah… Ada org yg masuk ke teritorikuuuu… Oleh krn itu kunikmati dengan sangat masa single iniii.. Hehe

    1. Hehehe aku dan suami dulu sama2 mandiri bgt, makanya banyak cekcok kecil soal hidup bersama ini, tapi lama2 kita nyocok2in dan bisa jalan bareng juga :)))))

  2. Compromise! ini nih yg suami aku bilang terus2an hahaha soalnya aku kan anak tunggal selalu apa2 terpenuhi dari kecil jadi egois 😝 hidup bersama seseorang itu bener2 bikin aku belajar buat lapang dada πŸ˜‚ aku skrg enjoy every little things karena hal2 itu yg bisa selalu diingat ketika lg kesel sama pasangan haha

    1. Bener bgtttt, kalo kita berdua sama2 kelewat mandiri Stel, apalagi bekas LDR kan, pas bareng 2-2nya kaget hahahaha perang deh 😝 anyway bener bgt yg kamu bilang, enjoy little things penting yaa

  3. Aku secara berkala pencetin 3 pasta gigi lain supaya rapi πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„
    Aku juga beres2 kasur sehari berkali2 hahaha apalagi abis dilompat2in anak, beresin lagi…tapi kalau lagi capek yah dibiarin ajalah berantakan…ngomel bikin emosi jiwa nggak menyelesaikan masalah πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    1. Iya banget Fe, kenapa film2 hollywood ngga ada yg nyeritain kesel2nya gini sih πŸ˜› aku kan jadi ngebayangin yang romantis2 aja hahahahaha πŸ˜› πŸ˜› πŸ˜›

  4. Paling seru emang stelah menemukan hal-hal kecil yang awalnya kita bahkan ga tau ada di diri kita (lebih-lebih di pasangan). Hihihi.
    Bahagia bacanya. Semoga bahagia selalu ya buat kalian berdua πŸ™‚

  5. I think it will be impossible for any two people to not have “quirks” on each other when they have to live together! Lol πŸ˜† . Anyway, facing up toilet paper? That sounds … strange! Lol!

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